TheMomentum

"What very mysterious things days were. . . .

Sometimes they fly by. . . .

And other times they seem to last forever. . . . .

Yet they are all exactly twenty-four hours. . . .
.....
...
........
.. There's quite a lot we don't know about them."

#quote
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Natasha bedingfield - "strip me"

La la la la la la
Everyday I fight for
All my future somethings
A thousand little awards
I have to choose between
I could spend a lifetime
Earning things I don’t need
That’s like chasing rainbows
And coming home empty
And if you strip me,
Strip it all away
If you strip me,
What would you find
If you strip me,
Strip it all away
Ill be alright
Take what you want
Steal my pride
Build me up
Or cut me down to size
Shut me out
But I’ll just scream
Im only one voice in a million
But you aint taking that from me
Oh oh no you aint taking that from me x 4
I dont need a microphone
To say what I been thinking
My heart is like a loudspeaker
Thats always on eleven
And if you strip me,
Strip it all away

If you strip me,
What would you find
If you strip me,
Strip it all away
I’m still the same
Take what you want
Steal my pride
Build me up
Or cut me down to size
Shut me out
But I’ll just scream
Im only one voice in a million
But you aint taking that from me
Oh oh no you aint taking that from me x 4
Cos when it all boils down
At the end of the day
Its what you do and say
That makes you who you are
Makes you think about,
Think about it
Doesn’t it
Sometimes all it takes is one voice
Take what you want
Steal my pride
Build me up
Or cut me down to size
Shut me out
But I’ll just scream
Im only one voice in a million
But you aint taking that from me
Oh oh no you aint taking that from me x 4
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_thePreparationPart1_

whoaaa....since the proposal has been made and we've committed to each other...the wedding bells seems start to ring at this point.... though i wont have any great wedding dress like the picture since we're gonna married traditionally....it wont be any problem coz the most important thing i wanna shout out loud is "I'm GETTING MARRIED Y'ALL!!!!!" phewww.... wish me luck... no..no...wish us luck.... and more more of luck.......happiness....and luck... LoL.. i'll keep u updated...i'll try... well... *what am i doing? silly... *giggles*

_Proposal_

...
... Look, I guarantee there'll be tough times. I guarantee that at some point, one or both of us is gonna want to get out of this thing. But I also guarantee that if I don't ask you to be mine, I'll regret it for the rest of my life, because I know, in my heart, you're the only one for me....

....#quote
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JustSaying

...
.....Sometimes....

.....I just wanna say "I quit" and leave...

...
....Just like that.....

..
....
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_hubbub_

Most people said I'm in pre wedding syndrome...

But I know I wasn't..

I dunno if this appropriate to brag or write in a social network such a blog like this..but I really don't care now..
Just wanna let this out..
I know he will understand..somehow..

Its not that our relationship is on the rocks..
We've been here before...hundred times harder than ever before..
Now its not it..not even involve anybody else..

Its me..
Me..myself and I..

Feeling empty inside..
I don't feel the hype...
Nor the excitement..

Its just hurt...but I don't know where...
I feel the pain...but I can't find the wound..

I'm suffocated...

I scream out loud with no sound came out..

I dunno what's wrong with me..just like losing appetite..

I'll figure this out...soon...somehow..
I dunno...
Just keep holding on this faith..
I hope..

........
..
....
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The thruth is..

"Not everything made you stronger...

It was possible to survive, yet still be crippled for your trouble...

Sometimes it was okay to run away, to skip the test, to chicken out...

Or at least to get some HELP."

#quote
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3 choices we have..

"A person has three choices in life. You can swim against the tide and get exhausted, Or you can tread water and let the tide sweep you away, Or you can swim with the tide, and let it take you where it wants you to go."

Quote..

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The only exception-paramore

When I was younger
I saw my daddy cry
And curse at the wind
He broke his own heart
And I watched
As he tried to reassemble it

And my momma swore that
She would never let herself forget
And that was the day that I promised
I'd never sing of love
If it does not exist

But darling,
You, are, the only exception
You, are, the only exception
You, are, the only exception
You, are, the only exception

Maybe I know, somewhere
Deep in my soul
That love never lasts
And we've got to find other ways
To make it alone
Keep a straight face

And I've always lived like this
Keeping a comfortable, distance
And up until now
I had sworn to myself that I'm
Content with loneliness

Because none of it was ever worth the risk

Well, You, are, the only exception
You, are, the only exception
You, are, the only exception
You, are, the only exception

I've got a tight grip on reality
But I can't
Let go of what's in front of me here
I know you're leaving
In the morning, when you wake up
Leave me with some kind of proof it's not a dream

Ohh---

You, are, the only exception
You, are, the only exception
You, are, the only exception
You, are, the only exception
You, are, the only exception
You, are, the only exception
You, are, the only exception
You, are, the only exception

And I'm on my way to believing
Oh, And I'm on my way to believing...
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All fall down-one republic

Step out the door and it feels like rain

That's the sound that's the sound on your windowpane

Take to the streets but you can't ignore

That's the sound that's the sound you're waiting for

 

If ever your world starts crashing down

Whenever your world starts crashing down

Whenever your world starts crashing down

That's where you'll find me

(yeah)

 

God love your soul and your aching bones

Take a breath take a step meet me down below

Everyone's the same our fingers to our toes

We just can't get it right but we're on the road

 

If ever your world starts crashing down

Whenever your world starts crashing down

Whenever your world starts crashing down

That's where you'll find me

(yeah)

 

Lost till you're found swim till you drown

Know that we all fall down

Love till you hate strong till you break

Know that we all fall down

 

If ever your world starts crashing down

Whenever your world starts crashing down

Whenever your world starts crashing down

That's where you'll find me

 

Lost till you're found swim till you drown

Know that we all fall down

Love till you hate strong till you break

Know that we all fall down

 

All fall down all fall down

All fall down all fall down

All fall down all fall down

 

Lost till you're found swim till you drown

Know that we all fall down..

Love till you hate strong till you break

Know that we all fall down..
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My sunny days part 1

...
....HooaaheemmmZzz..

Bulan puasa..byk jajan..byk tidur..byk malesna...saya...
PS: padahal ga ikutan puasa.. :p

Kangen pulang ke rumah lg...kangen ngumpul adek2ku yg pd sotoy smua itu..

Sekilas ttg makhluk2 sotoy itu :
Cowok sotoy pertama -
Yg item dekil buncit nasibna ga sedekil tampangna bs lulus masuk D3 pajak STAN...
Bener deh mama kasi nama rizky..rejekina emg bagouuuzzzZzz...
Meskipun srg dibikin BeTe..tp aq bangga padana..haha...*hug
makasi dek udh bikin mama happy dan heboh sendiri..bwahaha..

Cowok sotoy kedua -
Ne makhluk paling parah malesna..malesna aq aj kalah..buanget..
Jarang mandi...jarang d rumah (skrg udh mendingan,dlu keluyuran mulu'..s4 jd punker jg..haddeeeeh..untung udh tobat)..heranna yeee...dekil gtu byk cewekna..ampun daah...modal pinter maen gitar ma tampang gtu doang..
Aq ma adekku yg prtama prnh maw ngerjain dia maw tulis status updatena dia gni "aq sebenarna jarang mandi lo teman-temaan.."..bwahaha..tp gagal...keburu ketauan&diamuk massa.. :p dasar anak SMA!.. *ngiri mode: on,udh tuwir alna*
Ne makhluk susaaah bgt dimintain tolong...tp klo dia yg minta tolong msti dibantuin..srg aq marah2in klo udh begini..sotoy bgt kan ngomelin kakakna..ya aq marahin balik..seenak udelna aj..huh!..
Tp aq sayang diaaa...kata mama jgn dimanjain..makin menjadi2 ntar...hbsna gmn..masa' aq blg ga' klo emg dia perlu..haddeeh..

Trus cowok sotoy plg bontot -
Ni anak plg bikin gregetan...
Di rumah udh kaya raja..apa2 smua dilayanin *iyalah anak TK*...mauna msti diturutin..klo ga pecahlah jurus pemecah gendang telinga alias nangis sambil teriak2..
Klo lg waras..ya aman..maw ap2 mnta tolong baik2...
Tp klo lg BeTe,haduuuuh...puyeng satu rumah dibikin ma dia..
Pernah tuh..wktu maw aq anter ke TK,dia protes nyuruh aq ganti baju..katana ga sopan pake kaos doang..yee..pgn mnta jitak aj ni anak..untung jg dianterin..TKna cm sejengkal dr rumah juga..huu..
Ajaibna lg..ne anak satu plg ga bs make alat makan bareng2...
Klo lg ngumpul gtu,makan snack satu bt bareng2 dia ga bs...pnya dia klo udh ada bekasna org dia ga maw lg makan itu,minta yg baru..
Gelas,sendok,jajan smua gtu...klo dia liat ada org lain yg lg pake,dia ga maw..
Emg mstina gtu si..bagusna dan sehatna emg mesti gtu,tp qt kan biasana klo sodaraan ya comot2 aj..klo dia bs nangis darah tuh klo makananna dicomot2in gtu..

Seru deh..klo d rumah lg ngumpul semua...udh bs bikin sitkom...hahaha...

Lanjut ntar lg ah...msh ada hal2 tengal dan bodoh yg trjadi akhir2 ini..hehehe...yuk mariii...
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Who give the happiness?..

Suatu ketika istri John Maxwell, pembicara motivator top, Margaret, sedang menjadi pembicara di salah satu sesi seminar tentang kebahagiaan. Maxwell sang suami duduk di bangku paling depan dan mendengarkan. Di akhir sesi, semua pengunjung bertepuk tangan dan tiba. sesi tanya jawab. Setelah beberapa pertanyaan, seorang ibu mengacungkan tangannya untuk bertanya. "Miss Margaret, apakah suami Anda membuat Anda bahagia?" Seluruh ruangan langsung terdiam. Satu pertanyaan yang bagus. Margaret tampak berpikir beberapa saat dan kemudian menjawab, "Tidak." Seluruh ruangan terkejut. "Tidak," katanya sekali lagi, "John Maxwell tidak bisa membuatku bahagia." Seisi ruangan langsung menoleh ke arah Maxwell. Maxwell juga menoleh-noleh mencari pintu keluar. Rasanya ingin cepat-cepat keluar. Kemudian, lanjut Margaret, "John Maxwell adalah seorang suami yg sangat baik. Ia tdk pernah berjudi, mabuk-mabukan, main serong. Ia setia, selalu memenuhi kebutuhan saya, baik jasmani maupun rohani. Tapi, tetap dia tidak bisa membuatku bahagia.." Tiba-tiba ada suara bertanya, "Mengapa?" "Karena," Jawabnya, "tidak ada seorang pun di dunia ini yang bertanggung jawab atas kebahagiaanku selain diriku sendiri." Margaret mengatakan, tidak ada orang lain yang bisa membuatmu bahagia. Baik itu pasangan hidupmu, sahabatmu, uangmu, hobimu. Semua itu tidak bisa membuatmu bahagia. Karena yang bisa membuat dirimu bahagia adalah dirimu sendiri. Kamu bertanggung jawab atas dirimu sendiri. Kalau kamu sering merasa berkecukupan, tidak pernah punya perasaan minder, selalu percaya diri, kamu tidak akan merasa sedih. Sesungguhnya pola pikir kita yang menentukan apakah kita bahagia atau tidak, bukan faktor luar. Bahagia atau tidaknya hidupmu bukan ditentukan oleh seberapa kaya dirimu, cantik istrimu, atau sesukses apa hidupmu.

Bahagia adalah pilihanmu sendiri.. :)
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ThePain..

"We all carry around so much pain in our hearts..

Love and pain and beauty...
They all seem to go together like one little tidy confusing package...
It's a messy business, life. It's hard to figure--full of surprises...

Some good. Some bad."

Quote : Henry Bromel
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#quoted from george eliot

"What greater thing is there for two human souls than to feel that they are joined... to strengthen each other... to be one with each other in silent unspeakable memories...."
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_whirlwind_

..
....Its been a while for not blogging...
My mind too crowded and I feel like I've got so much to write but I just can't type any letter to start..
..The good thing is I never push myself for something I don't want to..

It been a really complicated time of my life...not the most..but somehow it's been drained all my energies...

I let myself sucked in...but I always tried to hold on to my faith...
I always try to remember how I've been blessed with so wonderful fams and friends..and a great imperfect lover...

I'm trying to keep up to myself...I felt like I was running so fast..
In a blink I've gone many places and my brain was too slow to recognize..

I need more time to be alone..
To feel everything that had been happened this time around..

Happiness....sadness....I'm so blue while extremely excited...
My heart..my head...my mind over crowded and feels like a whirlwind stay for a long time..

I'm not whining...I feel blessed...
I know I'll cherish this moment somehow..
This rocky road has always been so exciting..has given me much more than I ever could imagine..
Like a true adventure with a real laugh and real pain to gain..
And every single scar...every beat of love and every drop of tears with every joy of love had been accompanied me this whole time..
That's what I called life...
My adventure...my blessed gift from God each breathe I take..

I hope I can share more joyfull story next time..
Wish me more great adventure!..
I'll wish u all the very best of u and strenght to ride ur own journey..
Don't runaway...ride the rollercoaster and shout out loud!!..
Enjoy the ride!..
Godbless..

XOXO ;)
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ShortMessage

"Beginning today...

(Try to) treat everyone you meet as if they were going to be dead by midnight....

Extend them all the care, kindness and understanding you can muster...

Your life will never be the same again."

-Og Mandino's quote-
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Can't u see?..Its me..

I’m sorry that sometimes, I get a little jealous, thinking that someone else could make you happier than I could...

I guess it’s my insecurities acting up...
Because I know that i’m not the prettiest, smartest or most fun and exciting girl....

But I do know that no matter how far and long you look....

you will never find someone that loves you....like I do.....
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_happy?_

"Realize that true happiness lies within you..
Waste no time and effort searching for peace and contentment and joy in the world outside..
Remember that there is no happiness in having or in getting, but only in giving..

Reach out...
Share...

Smile...

Hug..

Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself..."

Quote - Og Mandino -
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"300610"

..
I never like to mentions day,year..month..any date..no..
But that day made the time has stopped in my head..

From all I've been through..I forgive..I forget..I am..what I am..and who I am..there I am..

I realize...there's a part of me buried deep inside that shakin...
I still have that fear..
No matter how positive I am..no matter how strong I am..no matter what...
It's there..was there..and always be there...my fear...

and I'm scared..
...

.....Its a part of me..somehow I feel I need it with me..
While most people try to get rid of it...that day I realize I never want it dissappear from my life..
I just buried it deep down..for a long time..
It knocks sometimes..
scratching my scars..and let me bleed..
..It was there..

I'm scared but I'm not afraid...
its a complicated feeling I have...

....300610...
I can live with this fear..
I never gonna be an angel though..
Nor a devil..
It makes me more alive..
Reminds me that I am a human..
I can create both heaven and hell on earth..
That fear won't drives me...its just stay right there like a shadow..
Another side of me..
My negativity along my positive thoughts..
My pessimistic concern along my optimistic view...
It completes me...somehow...

...300610....

Once again..my fear brought me to discoveries..

I will always remember that day...
When my faith..my hope..my love...and my life almost lost...
when I realize how much it hurts and take damages..
When I know I never want to step back...
When I carve my path and seal the deal..
When I know.....no matter how great is my fear....It actually never wins against the whole of me...
I am scared....
But I'm not afraid....as I ever remember.....never....

Its (never) just me...
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porque esto es africa

Llego el momento, caen las murallas

Va a comenzar la unica justa de la batallas

No duele el golpe, no existe el miedo

Quitate el polvo, ponte de pie y vuelves al ruedo

Y la presion que sientes

Espera en ti, tu gente!

Ahora vamos por todo

y te acompaña la suerte

Samina mina sam ¡aleguah!

Porque esto es Africa

Samina mina ¡eh! ¡eh!

Waka Waka ¡eh! ¡eh!

Samina mina sam ¡aleguah!

Porque esto es Africa

Llego el momento, caen las murallas

Va a comenzar la unica justa de la batallas

No duele el golpe, no existe el miedo

Quitate el polvo, ponte de pie y vuelves al ruedo

Y la presion que sientes

Espera en ti, tu gente!

Ahora vamos por todo

y te acompaña la suerte

Samina mina sam ¡aleguah!

Porque esto es Africa

Samina mina ¡eh! ¡eh!

Waka Waka ¡eh! ¡eh!

Samina mina sam ¡aleguah!

Porque esto es Africa

Oye a tu Dios

y no estaras solo

llegas aqui para brillar

lo tienes todo

la hora se acerca

es el momento

Vas a ganar cada batalla

ya lo presiento

Hay que empezar de cero

para tocar el cielo

Ahora vamos por todo

Y todos vamos por ellos

Samina mina sam ¡aleguah!

Porque esto es Africa
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_3ruleOfWork_

Three Rules of Work: 1. Out of clutter find simplicity; 2.From discord find harmony; 3.In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity." —Albert Einstein
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_ItsInside_

"To dream anything that you want to dream..
That is the beauty of the human mind..

To do anything that you want to do..
That is the strength of the human will..

To trust yourself to test your limits..
That is the courage to succeed." —Bernard Edmonds
(Quoted by samskara yoga)
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Apocalypse

..
....In our diversity..there's always battle among us..

One day..when there's greater force come to us..
We'll realize that we're all one kind..

And when we've finally knew what should we done for many years before..
Its too late to turn it back..

Then again....
Everything will be just a history...
We leave it back in the past...
And regreting so much..

One day..when we finally realize how lame the diversity on our egos..
Everythings is too late and the only redemption is our own extinction..
..
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I agree...2

The Internet is like alcohol in some sense. It accentuates what you would do anyway. If you want to be a loner, you can be more alone. If you want to connect, it makes it easier to connect..

-Esther Dyson-
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I agree...

I was thinking about how disjointedly time seemed to flow, passing in a blur at times, with single images standing out more clearly than others. And then, at other times, every second was significant, etched in my mind

-stephenie meyer-
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a message to us...

AllAbout...

I've said this many times...
No matter what people think or said about u..
U're the one who handle it..
U're the one who have the key to it..
Its ur choice to be what people said about u...or make urself better no matter what the stereotype put on u..
Coz in the end..they'll see who u really are..
If u still think negative..it would affect all aspect in ur life to be negative..
Believe it or not its true..
U can deny it...but inside u must feel so miserable..
So unstable and insecure...
Coz u always though everything in a negative ways..
U always run from it..
Faking it with temporary pleasure..and after u'll still stuck with ur negativity and being miserable all over again..

I don't mean to teach u or feels like I'm the most positive person in the world..
I've down that road before..it was so miserable and killing me inside..
That's why I share this coz I don't want any other person feel the same way I did that time..
It ruined everything in your life slowly..
U lost ur faith to the thruth and lost ur way to see clearly..
Coz ur head getting stigmatized..u easily believe something negative..
U keep running..hoping time would erase ur problem away..but it just would erase ur good life away..

With negativity,u lived ur life like hell..u don't know what to do and keep asking people around u..its lucky if any other people around u cared so much, I mean a "real" care to take u back in a good mind set..if they just help u run away..u'll just gonna fall deeper..
U'll get home with emptiness..coz nothing u'll get with running away..
The worse thing happen if u don't realize that happiness u pursue is not an escape..u consider it just a refreshing..no its not..its ur denial..

Its so sad if a person...a human being that had given a life and power to choose what's right..gettin wrong turn and so miserable...while happiness just around the corner..

The bottomline is all of us always have opportunity to change..always..
Embrace a serenity and peace in ur heart..
Listen to ur heart..look down to other that less lucky than u..
Don't sweat small stuff...
Impatience and laziness is the cardinal sins and the worst personality u've acquired when u always embrace negativity..it envy another bad personality to u that u will never realize till u really fall deep under..and its just will bring u more and more misery..

I believe everyone can be positive..even if they in a huge problems there's always be a silver lining..
There's always laid a path to make it better..
We just have to be patient and give our best attitude towards it..
...

Once again..I share this not because I'm the expert or feel that I'm the best of all..
I share this coz I know how it feels..I've ruined my life once and now I try to build it back..
Its difficult..but not impossible...
Its hard..its boring..but not impossible..
..
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_TheEffortAsAGirl_

...
...
....My mom ever said "when you were born as a girl...it was like brought the magic and the curse at the same time..."

Well..it doesn't mean she thinks I was a curse..but she thought that raise a girl in this kind of world need more effort and carefully handle..
To teach a girl how to survive among any stereotype and be herself, fearlessly face the world with dignity and capability to pride..
Because girl was and still put under boys with many people...
Boys still thought that they deserved to put their domination and always proud of their physical strenght..

Grown up as a girl was also seems more complicated...
We brought many issues than boys could brought in..
But at the same time we put magic to it and turn it like a miracle that all people would adore and ready to die for it..
A girl..a woman inspired many kind of simple things that going huge and fabulous..going powerfull and brought wide variety of art and science....

Despite all the stereotype upon a girl..many of us had really kick most boys ass with our achievement..
We've been put down low but we fight much harder to put our names among the men till their down on our knee and adore us like crazy..
Nowadays we can told a lot of girls name in the most powerfull industries and many kind of specialty..
even if there was still problems...we haven't get fully protected yet by the law..
Few countries even banned women from various things and made them only have less choices..
Many countries even not fully committed to protect women against sexual harrasment...
That was so lame...coz women had given so much to a country...
We're an indicators of a country's wellfare..
But much girls still treated bad and desperately seeking for protection..
..

In my country they said "women are women, no matter how powerfull they are,they'll get back to the kitchen"..
Its true...we can be so powerfull..but we still a women..a lil' girl..
But it doesn't mean we're a lil' girl all the time..
God create both gender to protect each other..
To strenghten each other...
Not to gone separate ways and see who'll win the battle..
..Its worthed if we asked full support,respect and protection as we did the same to all boys when we, women, gave birth all of them..

-to be continued....-
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QuoteFromAgathaChristie

..I like living..

.. I have sometimes been wildly, despairingly, acutely miserable, racked with sorrow...

but through it all I still know quite certainly that just to be alive is a grand thing..
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LeavingChancesTakingRisk

..
...
..I always always have faith in some other power deep within..
..In my short life..I've given many chances and choices to choose in my way to carve my path..
..

Once I thought I was gone w/ the flow..
But I'm wrong..
No matter how powerless I am..
I'm still the one who can carved my way down..
..

Most people who knows me real close known me for letting go of any good chances..as far as they knew..
Even my mom can't really understand what am I up to..
I believe my dad will do...although it was absurd coz he was dead long time ago..

they said why am I let go of a great man..a rich and well educated man who proposed me and promise me a secure life to live my life somewhere i never knew before..

If u asked me the same question..I tell u the same answer...I don't know..

I'm not consider myself to get rebellious or just go with it...
I have so much things inside me I can't even remember to be the reason why am I here by now..
I can't even remember..
..Yes,I can't..

All I know..I just have faith on it..
Just faith and hope that brought me a courage to explore something new..and to believe what I've decided is something that worth to fightin' for..
Even if someday world will proved to me that I was wrong..I put no regret..
..I shall put no regret..

For me...life was like have faith in God..
None of us really know the thruth even if we claimed so..
But none of us really know the thruth except the God itself..
But I believe that the God exist..
That supreme power exist..
I don't have to search it anywhere..
Its already deep within me..
My soul and every breathe I take is the prove that God is here..
God never leave and always near..
That's why I always can lay my life to that supreme power..
..

Each time..every time I doubt my way..
I hold on to my faith..
I'm waitin' patiently coz sooner or later everything will get answered..

I'm just 23 years old girl who lived her life far away from home..
My dream is blurr...I can't even remember..
I just knew I'll get somewhere somehow..
And I'm on it..

Most of the time I have to let go of chances to take greater risk that I feel I can put my faith onto and stick up with it..

I can take another chances later..
In life..chances always flashes..
Anytime..
Almost everytime..
So don't be afraid to runnin out of it..
Once I take a chance..I've take something with the greatest risk..
And I've been through this for quite some time now..
I don't know where it may leads..
But I have faith..if I get this right..I'll get better result..

I've made this commitment..and I'll stick to it..
No matter how much other chances that I left behind..
I'll choose this way..
And no matter how hard it is..
It will be part of my life..
Will be part of my chapters and written on my story..
..Put no regret..life is worthed in every second..
..

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...As I grown up..
Moving up from one city to another..
From suburb to a big city..and from a town to a village..
Then find myself here at the capital city..
I learn a lot..
Since I can read when I was 3...I wanna know a lot of things..
I always said and thoughts I'm not so religious that I can't believe of any miracle or any kind of heavenly intervention of my life..
But I can sure about the power of faith and hope along in my life journey..
They brought me here..being here and feel what I'm feeling right now..
I feel blessed..
Can't find any other words to describe how my ordinary life I've through felt like a magic to me..

Kinda fairy tale..I think..
Kinda horror with lots of drama and thriller going on..
LoL..

Life can be so hard..
Each time I think about it..I find my life seems easier than any other people..
When I'm going down..feeling break down..
All I can think about is how hard this things hit me..
But then again I found myself flashback all my life..
How I have supportive family and friends who always near me..
I learn about lot of things from all the people around me..
Life seems so much easier..
I find myself have a normal teenage years..
Having fun..
Be in love..
Going to college..
Have a healthy happy relationship..
Even I'm nerd I can hang outs w/ cool people..
I lived both side of world..
I'm into high and low..
I see all perspective..
I'v come with easy part and gone through hard ways..
So normal..so blessed..
I don't have to prove anyone who I am..
Coz I know what matters to me..
I don't have to show anything and I don't feel I want to..

Now I just can laugh and thanks God for what I've had..
I've break down a tears and so fallin' down to kiss the ground..but I made myself survived it..
And I don't lose myself..
I still who I am and even upgraded..
I love a better person of me after all I've been through..

Looking and hearing people who trying to find theirself by trying so hard to called "cool" or "exist" or whatever hype around is making me sad for them but also grateful to God I'm not the one who made myself that way...

Coz I still can't understand those people who really wants a stereotype put on them..
I'd rather accepted myself first than making ppl accepted me for who I am not..or just trying so hard to be that person they wanna put on them..
Its so lame..
So pathetic..
But its their prerogative..
I have no right to forbid..
All I can do is keep myself remember how lucky I am..
How great the God has given me this life..
Has given me the faith..
The path..
The way of thoughts..
For not letting me only see..but also feel..
Feelin every side..
Live on both side..
Understand both side..
And not take aside..
..

Thanks God I can live with the nerds and the cool ones in balance..
Thanks God I don't have to try so hard to be accepted..

I can't fully understand why exist is important..
I feel I'm exist..
I'm breathing..
I'm here..thinking..working..socializing..
Normally human being..
I'm already existed..
I don't have to try to be one..coz I've been..
..I am..and always be.. :)
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..
....Most of us not really care or never really thought what is the urge for me to think about this..
But I think there's always lesson in every bit of our time we spend in life..
..

People who cares about simpliest thing seems easy but there's a process involved..
Everytime I look around...I saw a coffee collar..a plate...a spoon..fork...umbrella..
Dispenser..safety pin..etc..
Our daily life..
Our daily lil' thing..
Dunno why I always look back..
To the past..
Before all of this was invented..
..
What would it be?..
Its just fine..
No road..
No car..
No plane..
Its just fine..
We're just fine..
But our life now much easier and somehow more complicated than it seems..
I thought we've helped in many ways..
But why life still seems so complicated?..

No one appreciate the road..or the cars..everything gone usual now..
Even there was so much great invention and revolution..
Someday it will be just a thing..
Just a thing..

....Life is so simple yet so complicated...
The effort..the idea..
The creativity..
Its not just snapped right there..
..

For just thinkin' about daily life seems so complicated...how about anything else that truly complicated?..
As the thought that said "why would I do it if somebody else would?"..
If everyone thought so...then who would done it???...
...Gotta put some respect to anyone who had done it for us..
Not just complainin' why they done it not as what u wanted to be..
..

This whole thing actually larger than life..
Its not worthed to complain about..
There's no need to made it seems complicated..
Life is just simply as it is..
And even there's complicated things going on..it won't be impossible to turn it as simple as can be..
Don't do the vice versa..
..Be positive and move ahead..
Respect every lil' simple thing we have..
We'll see our life not so complicated as it seems..
There are more complicated things out there than ours..
The simple thing that actually has the real complicacy..

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QuoteAboutHappiness_

I do believe the same..
Its funny if people said they were pursuing happiness for their future..

Why not just living it now?..
Being happy is our own choice..
We can have bad day and bad things going on..but its our choice to get up and happy again..
Happiness is everywhere..
Happiness is always within..
But sometimes we just over burdened by our own..
Whining..complaining..doing nothing but crying..
Its ok to whine..
Its ok to complain..
And its really great if we can cry..
But just don't give it a long run..
Get up again..
Stand up again..
Have faith to this happiness within..
Its not going anywhere..
...
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_whenWeAskForA"Chance"_

Don't tell that we don't have a chance..
Or never have a chance..
We just don't wanna take the risk..
And don't wanna choose the difficult ways..
While maybe the difficult one brings a lot easier ways up front..
Who knows..
who dare?..
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..
...Later this month @ april 21st.. We celebrate kartini's day annually..
It's a day to memorize the inspiring heroine ever in indonesian history named Mrs. KARTINI along with others inspiring heroines from time to time..
..

As a woman, there were still a lot of obstacles out there to put ourselves among men..even among us..

women have had experienced underestimation from time to time and struggling to prove themselves..then came out names under this sex and absolutely fabulous, admirable, inspiring, talented, and much more than any words can say..

I told many times and had already proven how lazy I am..LoL..
But everytime I watch people passin' by..I thought what a waste I've done today..
Even though I can't change the world in a day..at least I should done something for myself..
Something that made me closer to be anything I can dream of..
At least I can be better for myself and all people near me..
It doesn't have to be so far out of my capability..
Probably I can't move others heart..but I can move my own heart..
To be a better woman for myself..
For my husband..
My parents..my bros..
My friends..and keeps on larger around my life..

Woman had so many roles...
Being a woman have to dedicated as wife and as mother..while her own career being pursued..

I'm so sad about what's going on with some unlucky women out there..in my country or far across the ocean..
All I can do just being better..
I want to recognized for my achievement..
Not only to whom I was married or where did I came from..

Kartini had her life inside cage of ancient javanese culture that not allowed women to be higher than men..
But her mind is louder than any sounds..
Thougher than any border and limitation...
Her words spread and inspire so many women until now..

"Habis gelap terbitlah terang"...soon the dark will end..and light will come..

So proud to all women who had a great achievement in their life in her own feet..
Her own name..
Her own thoughts and her own strenght to survived..

I'm proud to be a woman..
Proud to be an indonesian woman..
No matter where I coming from..
Or how my husband had great achievement..
I'll recognize myself with my own dedication..

Happy early Kartini's day..
For the greatest our finance minister..mrs. Sri mulyani..keep going strong and stronger..

Salute for all indonesian women..even just for being a woman..
We can't do everything...but we always can do something.. ;)
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TheSparkOfAtmanPart2_iJustHaveThatFaith_

..
....As long as I live...remindin' my childhood and so I grew up hearing adults talking about how a religion should be..what and how God will judge...
What should we do to please the God..and what forbidden to done..
..

I can really understand why I'm being such a different kid in some people's eye..and how they thought I was weird enough..
But...I just have this faith in me..
I'm not really thinks God is someone that should pleased..but I think God was more to be respected...and hold onto..
I was always trying to not called God by he or it or she...coz I think God was more than that..I can even sure to refer God only by called it God..I'd rather called a supreme power..beyond anything this human lil' brain could ever imagine..

I often said I'm not a religious person neither I'm atheis..
I'm a hindu..that's what I believe..but deep inside I just think positively about the God..
God is such a great power that never need us..we need God that's why we trying to reach..
So I think what people done that believe as to please God...is just matter of ways to respect...
I respect it..any other way..any different way..or even for non believers..

So..its really make me sad that people had that violence and war in the name of God..
The God never asked war or violence..I think God creates us or the reason we existed wasn't to bring war on earth..
We make God looks different...our brain, our soul..our existence is a part of God or as I believe the spark of Atman from the Brahman..

That spark had powerful source to create heaven or hell..
That's why I believed all people had their good and bad side..
Everyone..
Every living things..
Everything that had that spark had a borderless power to create such a life..
to choose which side..
To step into what wishful thinkin'..
Not always good..
Not always bad..
Can create peace and harmony..
Also can be a chaos influencing every other passion and misery..
..

This sparks is everywhere on universe...
In everything that can be seen or in different world..
In every dimension..
..

To be continued...
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..
...In 23 years of my life I thought I was so rebelious..
Even I've changed many times..
Adapted new behaviour and slowly recognize myself..

I'm not a smoker..not even like to drunk..
just occasionally sippin' one glass of champagne or wine..
And adding lil' vodka in a fruit punch..
Well I guess...I'm normally doing things..
LoL..

Since I was 4,I have weak immunity to any particular food..and since I was 9 I have problems with my digestions..
My mom always warned me about what should I do about how I should eat..how I should take care of my body and especially my digestions..

When I grew up..I thought I'm getting stronger and strong enough to break the rule..
To taste what I never really allowed to..
Being a rebel sounds so cool for me at the time..
Long story short...now I know it's not really cool at all..
..

After all this years..this days..
I'm starting to realize why no matter how I thought I knew...grewin' up would tellin' me more..
Sometimes..i couldn't just found the answer..while a teen blood always rushing to know..or too passionate to wait then choose to ignore..

I'm not saying I'm old enough to be wise now..
And I'm not considerin' to make any other people thinkin' the same way or live as I do..
I just wanna share that..if only I could keep my skeptical to any other bad result for being ignorance to my own health..I'll be so much relieve now..
But unfortunately I'm included in anyone who can't just doing things without any consequences..
I don't care how's the rate now...but this is what I've been through..
There's no time to regret..
What needed now is how I survive it..
How I can make it better...
Just stop thinkin' "what if"...
But just doing things better and significantly at present..and embrace this moment..
The future will determined later after today..and any other day I'll maybe have..
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_BeWithU_

It's a break in a hectic week...
Just laying down on the floor..
Snuggling with u under the blanket..
Feeling the afternoon sun sneak out through the window..
Just close my eyes, sense the moment..
...Gratefull..for every minute we spend together..
Just like this...
Feel like a breeze..
Be with u..was like a dream come true..
..
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QuotingAgain..

The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These people have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern.
They are the beautiful angels living among us. By:
_Elizabeth Kubler Ross_ JR's

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_Describe'LUCK'_

If you have food in the fridge, clothes on your back, a roof over your head and a place to sleep, you are richer than 75% of the world. If you have any money in the bank, your wallet and some spare change in a dish someplace, you are among the top 8% of the world’s wealthy. If you woke up this morning with more health than illness, you are more blessed than the million people who will not survive this week. If you have never experienced the danger of battle, the agony of imprisonment or torture, or the horrible pangs of starvation, you are luckier than 500 million people alive going through this suffering. If you can read this message you are more fortunate than the 3 billion people in the world who cannot read at all.
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_bobMarleyToldThisToTheMen_

It's not only to all men..but also all women..
He's not perfect either....
Just change "she" in that words to "he"...
..
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_LiveInIt_

Life is a road trip..
Happiness is not found at the final destination..
It is experienced along the way..

_by : unknown_
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_LiveOnBothSide_

Seriously...I've lived on both side...
Its inside...
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It'sJust....*ignoreIt..

...
..Aq sedih waktu org2 bicara hal2 negatif atau terkesan mengejek tentang pekerjaan pacar dan teman2ku yg saat ini notabene mmg pny pghasilan yg mumpuni bagi org seusia mereka hanya karena stigma lama yg melekat pd instansi mereka..

Buat aq pribadi...
Aq ngerasa ga nyaman klo ada nada2 underestimate pd suatu hal yg aku taw ga seremeh yg org2 kira..
But it's just me...no offense..
Aq ga mengharapkan org lain berperasaan yg sama dgnku..
I just wanna tell what I feel..

Aq duluna jg ga ngerti..
Kupikir wah enak bgt..duit gmpg datang..pekerjaan gampang..
...Cm gtu doang..
Tapi..semakin aq taw bagaimana sebenarna..stressor..interaksi..dampak lingkungan kerja..pola kerja..masalah2 di tempat kerja teman2ku itu..aq semakin respect ma mereka dan kupikir apa yg mereka dapat itu pantas untuk mereka..
Kadang menurutku di beberapa divisi/bagian perlu lebih banyak diberi tunjangan atau perlindungan kesehatan..
aq aja yg cm kerja 8 jam sehari di rmh sakit yg kadang2 sepi pasien bisa ngerasain tekanan atau dampak2 lainna..apalagi mereka yg berangkat kerja dr jam 7 pulangna kdg ampe mlm bgt..
Emg msh byk juga jenis pekerjaan lain yg jam kerjana panjang..aq jg respect bgt soal itu..dan trutama sm teman2ku ini..

sebagai cewek awalna aq sulit ngerti..
Tp semakin aq taw..
Semakin aq sering liat wajah lelahna dia sehabis plg kantor..aq nrasa aq bener2 keterlaluan klo nuntut hal2 yg kekanak2an..
Semakin sering dgr cerita situasi dan kondisi kerjana...aq jg kebetulan belajar di bidang kesehatan..aq semakin sadar bahwa apa yg mereka dpt itu sangat pantas...
Ada waktu yg dikorbankan..
Ada tanggung jawab..
Mereka bekerja..
Mereka pria yg msh muda..sementara banyak juga pria seumur mreka msh bergantung org tua atau bs hidup enak tanpa kerja..

Aq bangga kenal dan berteman dgn mreka bukan karna pekerjaan mreka apa..
Tp beberapa dr mreka aq taw bgt punya sikap dan tanggung jawab yg baik..
Pria2 yg bisa diandalkan..
Mereka mmg ga seperti pria2 metro atau apalah..
But deep inside..I know they'll be a great husband and father..

Kalaupun mereka punya keinginan untuk membeli sesuatu yg mahal ato memiliki hobi tertentu..bagiku itu well deserved bt mereka..why? Karena mereka berhak untuk itu..
Mereka menghasilkan uang dr jerih payah mereka sendiri..
Beberapa dr mereka bahkan terbebani tanggung jawab terhadap keluarga..
Membeli satu barang yg mereka suka berapapun hargana asal mereka mampu bagiku itu pantas..dan tidak bisa dibandingkan dgn org yg tidak bekerja atau dapat uang dr orangtua..itu sangat berbeda nilaina..

Bagaimanapun...siapapun...temanku atau bukan..I put my respect for what they've been done...
Smua pekerjaan punya tingkat stressor yg berbeda..
Org memiliki daya koping yg berbeda..
Cara adaptasi yg berbeda..
Ga ada pekerjaan yg benar2 sulit ataupun benar2 mudah..
Tergantung persepsi..
Tp bagiku..semudah apapun suatu pekerjaan..tetap menuntut tanggung jawab..
Pekerjaan sepele pun bs mengundang stressor..

Bagaimanapun kadang untuk bs memahami org lain..terbentur oleh ego kita sendiri...membandingkan hal yg sebenarna tidak bs disamakan..dan tidak pd situasi yg sama..

Aq jg pernah sangat sulit memahami...
Tp untuk bs memahami org lain..jgn letakkan org lain pd persepsi hidup qt..
Tp letakkan diri qt di persepsi hidupna..sulit..tp setidakna bs qt coba..

Just ignore me...
I just really care about my hubby..
And some friends that I knew..
...

Its just a story..
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_MarchMyWayOnMarch_

..
...In this month I was born 23 years ago at 12:07pm on sunday,March 8..
..

I'm so grateful I can reach this age and surrounded by my family and friends..

This month..I finished my exams..I celebrate 'otonan' on sunday,March 7, 2010..and continue my celebration of my birthday by the next day..
..
I went to my temple to pray and grateful for what I've been through and whatever comes next in my life..I pray and hope I can be useful for everyone around me..spread genuine attitude..live in harmony..manage my emotion appropriately..pray for safety and protection for my family and friends..for everyone I love and respect..believe that The Supreme Power never leave me alone and always give blessing..
My family called me..and prayed for me..
And my friends gave me a surprise party for my birthday..
I couldn't asked for more..I should knew my life was blessed since the first time I was born..
Everyone had blessed for living this life..
Including me...
Maybe tomorrow I'll forget...but at least once I've knew..and believe I'll always knew and so much grateful for however my life would be..

I also celebrate Caka New Year 1932 with 'catur brata penyepian' or simply called 'nyepi' (silence) today..this month..tuesday, March 16..
Spending whole day..in 24 hours with silence..begin the new year from zero point..from nothingness..from conciousness of inner self..
..
...I recap all the things I can remember..
..Hope and pray for something better..
...Strenghten my faith about future..
And let go everything that out of my control..lay it down..and believe in another supreme power to take care of it..
..

I'm not consider myself to be so religious...
Once I can't really believe to my religion..or everything what people might said and called as a religion..
But "Ekam sath, Vipraah bahudhaa vadanti",(the truth is one..scholars call it by various names..)
Which found written in rigveda..one of Veda scriptures..made me realize I'm nobody to judge..
I can live this life as dharma thought me..
Sanatana dharma is not a religion..
It's a law..it's a way of life..
..For me..that's what I believe and put my faith on..

In my 23 years of life..I realize how short it was..
I can't believe I've through all those years and sitting here..thinking and write this..
I don't have anything marvelous to tell..
Or a great achievement to proud of..
I just have what I have..
I've spent my time for good and bad..
To laugh and cry...
Being weakened and strenghtened...
And all other things...all the life could bring in ordinary....
..Everything was part of me..mend the broken and rise from falling...my story and my memories...I embrace it with all my heart,my mind and my soul..

I hope in the next day..next chance..next time that given to me..I can make myself better than today..
Just a little better..
A little closer to what I believe..

Thank you for everyone in my life...
However they are..good or bad..or even worse...
They thought me lessons..influence me and help me to be what I am now..however people judge..however it might seen..
In me..more or less..I feel blessed..
..
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Caka New Year 1932

Om swastyastu..

Selamat tahun baru Caka 1932..
Selamat menjalankan catur brata penyepian..
Semoga berkah selalu dilimpahkan..
..
...

Om..shanti..shanti..shanti...Om..
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_Kanggoang_

..
...That's a word in balinese means menerima apa adanya dulu...
..More or less..I think.. :)

Sejak awal kami berteman sampai detik ini....kata itu selalu ada dan bahkan jadi filosofi buat kami..
..Aku dan dia..
..

Sejak awal kami memutuskan untuk bersama...aq siap menerima kata "kanggoang" itu selamanya..
Membuatku lebih rendah hati...
Mampu mensyukuri...
Dan pantang menyerah...
..

Menikmati setiap apapun yang kami miliki...
Karena rasa kurang hanyalah persepsi di dalam diri...
Walaupun memang benar kami kekurangan..masih banyak orang lain yg sama dengan kami bahkan jauh lebih kurang daripada kami..

Less demanding....benar2 menjadi orang yang mawas diri dan cermat..
Aku jadi lebih menghargai stiap jerih payahnya...
Belajar meletakkan rasa hormat dan percayaku padanya...
Begitu pula dia mulai meletakkan hormat dan rasa bangganya padaku karena aku mampu bertahan di sampingnya dengan kemampuanku sendiri..
Mampu menghormati dan menerima bagaimanapun keadaan kami tanpa mengeluh dan terus berusaha agar menjadikan diriku bukan beban baginya tapi partnernya untuk menjalani hidup..
...

Perlahan kami belajar...
Kami tidak sempurna..tapi kami terus belajar...
Rasa sakit dan bahagia...apapun keadaannya...kanggoang kami rasakan dulu..
Sambil terus berjalan bersama..
Saling menguatkan...
Kadang harus berkorban..
Tidak selalu menerima..
Tidak selalu bisa memberi..
Kanggoang dulu...
Kami masih terus menjalaninya dan terus berusaha...
Kalaupun keadaan memburuk..atau pernah buruk...kami jalani dengan ikhlas..dan terus memperbaikinya..

Dia pernah bilang..aku akan terus mendengar kata kanggoang itu slama aku bersamanya...
Kukatakan padanya....kanggoang hidup denganku juga ada suka ada duka...
Kami sama2 menerimanya..
Kami tidak mengharapkan yang terbaik..
Kami hanya ingin jadi lebih baik setiap harinya..

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...
..
.......
..
....For me..everything so wide and borderless...
I always think it must be anything interesting outside the horizon..
Its more than I can see..
More than I can feel..
So everytime I feel I'm centered and shallow...I try to remember how tiny I am in this huge universe..
..

In my beliefs..me and everything else of this universe was the spark of Atman..
Atman is the greatest source...we might called it God..
the one and only we could believe has ultimate and unlimited power to create this whole universe..
..
...

I'm not consider myself religious...I'm just thinking..
As a spark of the Atman..humans have inner God in them..
Human beings is as huge as the spark itself..
No matter how deep we thought we've knew about ourself..it was barely touch the surface..
..
....
..To get to know about ourself there's hundreds knowledge and science to discover..but still..the mystery unsolved..
Just 1 human..can spare into hundreds of science..to learn about eyes, ears, pulomonary system, gastrointestinal system..and much more..our blood..our cells..our DNA..our mucose..and all..
But still..we can't figure out everything..
It perhaps because we as a part of the Atman have to realize that what we've known is barely nothing compare to the Atman itself..
..

1 human..a spark..a miracle..one life..
One part of this world..even just like a dust in universe..we should never disrespect..
Coz every human..has part of God's power within..
However they act..whoever they are..
..Deep down everyone is a good man..
But some people just choose to take the opposite..
Its their choice..and they'll get what they've done..
As we've got what we've done..

..Universe always in a balance condition..
When it's unbalance..it would tried to evolve for reaching the balance..
Terms 'rich' available coz there's 'poor'..
'Lazy' is said coz there's people knows 'hardwork'..
Everything got its role..
...

..To be continued...
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...
..
....Its just another week..another day roll..
..Rain pouring down...
....

..When I stuck on somewhere I don't know while raining...I can't do anything but wait..
..Looks like a big and windy one pass through my city today..
..I'm standing w/ some people..
Wondering how would it be..and when it'll be over..
..
..I watch people whining...just keep silent and staring...talking...
I just smile and watching..
..Perhaps I'll be different if I'm in a hurry..
But I realize that sometimes we can push anything on our way...we should let another way come through..whether it's bad..or even worse..
...

As the rain began to subside...I decided to buy an umbrella before it starts raining again...
..
...But I barely use it anyway...I can't risk myself facing stormy weather with just an umbrella..
Once again..I gotta wait..but that umbrella must find it useful somehow..
..*giggles...I don't know why I'm laughing sometimes..
Its just nice to turn my bad mood to a gud mood with just simple things..
..
..Rain often makes me blues..but in my mind I can create my own sunshine..

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Finally I can go to take my ticket..
It's a flight ticket..they can just deliver it..but I choose to take it by myself..
..Besides I haven't fixed yet with the price..
..However...
On my way there I ride a bus..
What I always see in my poor richest country is child labour..
But I'm not gonna seen it as politician did..or humanitarian did..
I just...
..I just find it amazing..
Here..I saw a boy..
He became an assistant for the bus driver..
He doesn't even have any shoes on..
His duty is search for the passenger and give any sign to the driver whether it should stop or move on to load and unload the passengers..
Well..we did 'man'ually here in our country..*chuckles..
..

Back to that boy..I asked him how old is he..and he said he was 11..
that was really breaking the law..
But...
..I think he was far more better than any beggars out there..
I ask him why he work on this bus..its really dangerous..why doesn't he just work as beggars?..he said begging is not a work..this is working..
I just can amaze while he ignores me and keep working..
Life is about choices..
Even its hard..there's more possibilities to be harder...
And somehow hard is just about perception..
Just like this fearless lil' boy...
He just sing along his way through his hard life..
He saw and he put himself where he wanna be..
He could just beg..or steal..or anything..but he choose to work his way to live his life..
I'm still thought that kids deserved their kids time..but not everyone can really get it..
This lil' boy has his own perception about his life..he choose different way..
I'm not agree to child labour..either use kids as beggars..
But I value this boy for his hard works..for not just giving in to the easiest way with no honor..but choose the hard ways with dignity..
..He just 11..and he teach me somehow..
No matter I stuck..and think there's no choice left for me...actually I still have that choice..
I just need to dare myself..am I dare to take the choices I have that might be really hard for me..or just standing here doing nothing but whining,blaming and crying..
..

Just another day in my life...
Another moment..
More I know..its never worth to whine small stuff..
There's a lot out there deserve to done it than I do..
That's why I'll make my own sunshine...
Just rain..traffic..annoying waitress..annoying bajaj driver...let them have their attitude..
I'll keep my brightest smile..and laugh to myself..
Cheers for today..
let tomorrow comes..
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..
....most people had something in common..
But still every individual had their own value...
..
...We always ask why the one we've known rarely seen had any common with our others acquiantance..
..
...Coz perhaps they're the one in a thousand or perhaps one in a million...
..

We got one earth..but lot of world on it..
Everything got its own classification..perception...stratification..values...beliefs..
..And all of it done by concious or unconscious..
..

...Most people can't stand themself being different..
And some of them embrace their unique..
..Most people can't understand why some people are different..
..And some people just don't know why most people bother about it..
..

Once in a time I lived in confusion..
I don't know why..I don't know how...
But more I experience..more I think..
More I know..
More I realize...
...I'm not the only one who suffered..
I'm not the only one who feel the pain..
But I'm the one who can face my own world..my own problem..my own pain..
...
.....

..To be continued...
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_behaviorResearchOnBajaj_

..
...When I'm out and about all by myself..I'm quickly bored and enjoy it..
...As people passing by I learn that I could have so much fun about it..
..

Sometimes I found people under hard labor day such as bus driver, taxi driver..or even bajaj driver was irksome..
..Not all...but most..
...it could happen for 2 reason : stressor or its just how they are..
..
...

I always have faith that most people didn't intended to be bad...while some perhaps really intended..
..
...But what attract me most and give me a big enjoyment was this :..

Bajaj...
One of 3 cycled transportation in my country..
It sounds very annoying and higher level on vibration hazard..
No doubt it brought lot of stressor and side effect on sosiopsychological aspect of the bajaj driver..

One simple research..
I always made a hard bargain to this driver..
Bajaj is not like a taxi...we should have a bargain how much it costs to go to our destination..
Long story short....the driver took me but he grumbled and carelessly drove his bajaj..
It annoys me actually..but I really wanna know how this is gonna be..
I've said before to him that my destination is not far from we took off..
But when he found it was so far away..he really upset but trying not to show..
He protested with carelessly drove..
When we arrive..he still grumbling..and suddenly stop when I paid as much as he asked before bargaining..coz I thought its worthed..I admit its far..but tell nothing..I just smile and out from the bajaj..he stop grumbling and start a very genuine flattering..he even help me out of his bajaj..
Offer me if he could do anything else..
I almost LoL in front of him..
..

So that's it..
...How I love to be bored...I could found LoL trick all the time..hahaha..
Ciao.. XD

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_iAmLately_

..
...I'm lately like I always used to be..
Weak and sick..
But for those who know me..I have a stubborn heart..
..

..I feel like my body and my mind never really tired to think even my head spinning round and I almost fainted by fever..
..

Neither alone in my room..or with my friends..or on the street...
I can't help myself thinking about everything..
Every little thing I've through..
I've been seen..I've been felt..
..

I was never assume I'm right...I always think that every right thing has possibility to be wrong..
It's just a matter of how I deal with it..
..

When I face something going on in front of me..
My mind and soul collide to choose which track I would step in..
Time's never wait..
after one blink...I'll saw myself smile and relieved..or I'll regret what I've done..
..

There's no replay..
Life's a spontaneus stage without rehearsal..
I rehearse from my mistakes and embarrasement...
From my pain..and from what I've seen..
..From my laugh..
All around me...
...

Each time I fall off this stage..and rise again..
I take a look for everyone...
They're fall like I am..
But some choose to rise or buried deep down their deepest fear..
..

Even when I thought I was all alone feeling happiness or pain..
There's billion people feel the same..
Not as similar maybe..
..But I never alone..
I feel down...but I thought someone out there had survived it..and I would do so..
..
It's not just me to feel..
I am no one but part of this life ride on giant wheel...
Wheel of emotions..
Wheel of faith and fate..
I'm not seeing what in front..
But all around on every side..
..That's why I won't give up..
I'll be rest for a while..
But don't ever think I'm giving up..
I just rest..
Close my eyes and feel my breathe getting slow..
My head keep spinning round..
My body getting weaker..
But my soul....live it up...forever...
..
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Dear Mr. President,
Come take a walk with me.
Let's pretend we're just two people and
You're not better than me.
I'd like to ask you some questions if we can speak honestly.

What do you feel when you see all the homeless on the street?
Who do you pray for at night before you go to sleep?
What do you feel when you look in the mirror?
Are you proud?

How do you sleep while the rest of us cry?
How do you dream when a mother has no chance to say goodbye?
How do you walk with your head held high?
Can you even look me in the eye
And tell me why?

Dear Mr. President,
Were you a lonely boy?
Are you a lonely boy?
Are you a lonely boy?
How can you say
No child is left behind?
We're not dumb and we're not blind.
They're all sitting in your cells
While you pave the road to hell.


What kind of father would take his own daughter's rights away?
And what kind of father might hate his own daughter if she were gay?
I can only imagine what the first lady has to say
You've come a long way from whiskey and cocaine.

How do you sleep while the rest of us cry?
How do you dream when a mother has no chance to say goodbye?
How do you walk with your head held high?
Can you even look me in the eye?


Let me tell you 'bout hard work
Minimum wage with a baby on the way
Let me tell you 'bout hard work
Rebuilding your house after the bombs took them away
Let me tell you 'bout hard work
Building a bed out of a cardboard box
Let me tell you 'bout hard work
Hard work
Hard work
You don't know nothing 'bout hard work
Hard work
Hard work
Oh


How do you sleep at night?
How do you walk with your head held high?
Dear Mr. President,
You'd never take a walk with me.
Would you?
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_JakartaHariIni_

.
...Today goes smoothly...
I don't even bothered by anything and I don't give a damn..
.
..I feel like I have enough just being myself and help others as far as I can..
Just like that..
I'm not expecting anything or something..
I'm blank but I fully content..
.

.Some weird thing happen..
Something always happen everyday..
Even on the most boring condition..I feel I see and I learn about something..
.

When I get home today by bus..while I'm thinkin' bout how nervous I am while working on my exam today..someone give me a small sticker with arabic language on it..
I recognize it as symbol of islamic belief..
ALLAH is the mightiest...
I got it when I'm in doubt of how my exam will passed..
It makes me smile even I'm not a moslem..
God can give his encouragement in every way that God wanted..
.
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I'mMe

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TimeLikeThis..

I want u to...... X)
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_embraceIt,dontFightIt_

Nothing come to ease when it hurts...

I cry a lot..
Gain pain so much..
I wish I just can swept away..
But its just won't leave me any day..

I just can embrace it..
Admit that I can't stand it..
But one thing I have to believe..
I'll find my way to relieve..
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LiveUrs..

Reason to live our life for another is just an excuse so we can blame if it doesn't work...
It's not bring anything..just drag to nothing..
So live our own life and another can be proud to be involved in..
.
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_OnTheRoad_

..
.Its surprised me that boring things or obstacles could be very enjoyable..for me..
.I find a lot in silence..
Stronger and more independent..
I saw kind of things that people mostly missed..coz it been their daily life..
Struggling just to survive..

I'm boring but get excited at the same time..
The way people live their life colorin' my day..
Amused me in such a delicate ways..
Adorable..
Nauseating..
Valuable..
Absurd but clearly amazing..
.

I can't explain how it could be so interesting..
I guess that's why people keep alive..
So many reason to hurt and gain much pain..
But more reason to survive...
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